When the Parents Change, Everything Changes

Your own behaviour is the only behaviour over which you have absolute control. To change your childrens behaviour, you first need to change your own. Here, Britains leading behaviour expert reveals how we get childrens behaviour wrong - and how to get it right. Drawing on a method tried and tested in over 100,000 classrooms, he shows that the only way to change what your child does is by first changing what you do. He explains why punishing your way to a life without tantrum-prone toddlers/sulking teenagers is a fools errand - and how to instead grow new behaviours with love. And he reveals why a positive, relational, consistent approach to parenting is 1,000 times more powerful than any Xbox, Disneyland trip or cold, hard cash bribe that money can buy. Filled with practical tools and relatable case studies, Paul Dixs method will turn your home into a behavioural nirvana. It is not just a list of punishments and rewards. It is so much more useful than that. Review. This book is an absolute game-changer. Paul manages to impart practical wisdom about our behaviour as parents - and how small changes have huge impacts - without ever sounding preachy. I laughed, nodded, winced a few times and most importantly felt inspired to make slow, incremental changes to how we do things in our house. Warm, funny and extraordinarily helpful. A must-read for anyone who looks after children. -- SARAH TURNER, aka The Unmumsy Mum. In this fantastic book Paul empowers us parents to put our energy
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